{"id":3903,"date":"2015-04-18T22:32:13","date_gmt":"2015-04-19T02:32:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/?p=3903"},"modified":"2015-04-13T22:53:01","modified_gmt":"2015-04-14T02:53:01","slug":"forgive-and-be-forgiven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/index.php\/2015\/04\/18\/forgive-and-be-forgiven\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgive and Be Forgiven"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/index.php\/2015\/04\/18\/forgive-and-be-forgiven\/forgiven\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-3904\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3904\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Forgiven-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Forgiven\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Forgiven-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Forgiven-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.ChurchOfTheBeyond.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Forgiven-144x144.jpg 144w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.<\/p>\n<p>Matthew 6:14-15<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Jesus&#8217; words on the subject of forgiveness are well known by many, and yet, still, the root of so many difficulties within the life of a believer stem from this issue of forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, the heart is a complex, and very deep matter. \u00a0As Jeremiah said, the heart is deceitfully wicked, who can know it? \u00a0(Jeremiah 17:9). \u00a0But, speaking a little while later, the prophet wrote, &#8220;Heal me, and I will be healed; \u00a0save me, and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise.&#8221; (Jeremiah 17:14). \u00a0I do not believe we have a wicked heart, as believers, but we do have one that requires the faithful purification of a loving savior.<!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If thy whole body therefore be full of light, having no part dark, the whole shall be full of light, as when the bright shining of a candle doth give thee light.<\/p>\n<p>Luke 11:36<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;No dark part&#8221; was Jesus&#8217; way of stating that we must be wholly clean. \u00a0We must become free of all contaminants of soul and body, the more and more we wish to walk in His light.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus said that if we claim we are blind, we are not guilty of our sin (John 9:41). \u00a0But, just as we do not desire to\u00a0<em>remain<\/em> blind, we must therefore take account of the fact that things were previously were allowed to &#8216;get away with&#8217;, in responsibility for our new sight, we become responsible for that which was previously permissible.<\/p>\n<p>Within our hearts are places of wounds, expectations and requirements upon others. \u00a0Upon the backs of others, through expectations and demands, we expect our needs, emotional, spiritual, physical, to be met by others. \u00a0As we grow, we must come to learn to recognize these. \u00a0These are not their responsibility, nor are they anyone&#8217;s but the Lord&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>Debts are hard to pay. \u00a0They are like being in bondage to something. \u00a0&#8220;The borrower is slave to the lender&#8221;, Proverbs says (Proverbs 22:7). \u00a0But, to be free, we must free them.<\/p>\n<p>Their part is not to fulfill our needs. \u00a0Their purpose is not to be there for us. \u00a0They are there to serve, and to give to.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, God meets our needs through people, but it is God alone that meets them.<\/p>\n<p>When expectations, needs, are placed upon others, we are their slaves. \u00a0We can neither function freely, nor be all that God has called us to be. \u00a0But, when we release others, expecting nothing except what the hand of the Lord freely provides, we are free to be what God has called us to be.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.<\/p>\n<p>Hebrews 13:5<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No thing of this life, neither pleasure, honor, nor any other thing, can truly satisfy the longing of our hearts. \u00a0If some great need of childhood of nurture or abandonment has been acrued in your life, all that can be done is to forgive.<\/p>\n<p>God is not a debtor. \u00a0He does know your needs. \u00a0But, you need to release it, big or small, give it all, and He will forgive you yours.<\/p>\n<p>The reason for being snagged in the Spirit, when one simply wants to worship, is unforgiveness. \u00a0Whether it was a transgression against you, or a debt someone owed, forgive it. \u00a0And, you will be forgiven.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 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